Over identifying with people close to you taking responsibility for their feelings.
Taking responsibility for other people’s shortcomings or behavior.
Enmeshed relationship that don’t have clear boundaries.
Little regard for other people’s boundaries.
Often feeling like you can or should control how other people behave or feel.
Having a hard time saying NO to people you care about but also with people you whose opinion you value.
Feeling tired and overcommitted
Personal sacrifice with little or no gain.
Personal Value based in how you are perceived by others.
Low self-concept.
Intense discomfort with conflict or people being disappointed or angry with you.
Loss of identity in relationships
Enabling behavior that isn’t good for you or the person you are in relationship with.
Often feeling overwhelmed or anxious about what is going on with others.